P.E.A.C.E. by Dr. Lavena Wilkin

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This week Dr Wilkin continues her exploration of Peace in her blog..

Why Should I care about Conflict Management

 I guess I am “old school”.  As a manager, I expect employees who have conflicts to get over it and do their work.  Why should I be concerned about learning conflict management skills? 

Employees who are engaged in conflict may go through the motions of doing their work, but they are often distracted by the situation.  They gossip with others about the problem, become less motivated, sabotage the business, miss work, or quit their jobs. Others file grievances and some resort to litigation.  All of these responses to unresolved conflict are costly to the orgnization.

 Many employees turn to their leaders to help resolve these prolems.  In fact, managers spend 40% to 60% of their day attempting to resolve conflicts. Consider the average manager’s salary and the financial impact of negative conflict increases significantly. While conflicts are a natural part of organizational life, most people have not been taught how to manage them productively.  Additionally, many believe that conflict is negative, so they avoid it.  Who wants to engage in something that is undesirable?  As a result, employees lose trust in the leader’s abilities, and they are less likely to follow people they do not trust.                                              

 Rather than avoid the conflict or tell the employees to “get over it”, leaders would benefit from viewing conflict as a symptom that something is not working.  It is an opportunity for positive change, organizational learning, and improved performance.  Conflict management is a strategic approach to becoming a world class organization that attracts and maintains the best and brightest employees. 

Managing Conflict

Everyone has conflict, but very few have the knowledge to know how to manage it constructively.  On this site I introduce a set of new skills I have identified that will help people handle conflict in their lives.  This set of skills is represented by the acronym P.E.A.C.E. which stands for Perception clarification, Empathetic Listening, Appreciate Diversity, Collaborative Problem Solving, and Emotional Intelligence.  I have written several articles that detail these skills and how they can contribute to one's ability to deal with conflict in his or her life.  I look forward to helping the many people past partially or totally disabling conflict so they can lead peaceful and fulfilling lives. 

Sincerely,

LaVena Wilkin, Ph.D